No matter how skilled, everybody makes mistakes.
Here's how to finish every cross stitch project, in spite of them.
I recently went through a period where I couldn't stitch very often. Thankfully, life has calmed down and finally I'm back to cross stitching. For the first couple of weeks, though, it seemed I was taking out one stitch for every two good ones.
Then, I had to remove a large area of white stitching on white fabric, when I was so close to having the project completed.
I was frustrated. I was in a hurry. I just wanted to get on with it.
So instead of carefully removing the stitches individually with my needle, I used my handy dandy, curved-tip, titanium embroidery scissors. What could be quicker?
And those sharp little scissors clipped right through the white fabric instead.
Yikes! "Haste makes waste" was ringing in my ears.
As embarrassing as it is, I wanted to share this to assure all new stitchers that we all make mistakes. And it doesn't matter that you make them, it only matters how you handle them when you do.
So even if I had already planned to stop stitching at that time, I do whatever I have to do to fix my mistakes before I quit. This ensures that I am always anxious to get back to my cross stitch project.
While studying project management back in my corporate days, I learned to identify these three stages of every project:
Now you are ready to take on the next project, any project, secure in the knowledge that no matter what, you can overcome the obstacles and come out ahead on the other side.
If you give up at Stage 2, it is very likely that you will continue to repeat that pattern. Plan a project, start the project, then quit when there are problems. And you do that over and over and over again.
Why? Because you never made it to Stage 3. Since you quit too early, you didn't experience the satisfaction and rewards of a job well done. You didn't gain the confidence that comes from facing your problems head on, divining a solution, and finishing the path to success.
For me, it's easier if I fix my mistakes right away so that I am always excited about stitching again.
Now, before I finish for the night, I'm off to figure out exactly how to repair the hole I made in my fabric.